tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post115234816607917908..comments2024-02-09T05:30:07.127-05:00Comments on Blogpourri: Will Ignoring Your Spouse's Undesirable Behavior Fix It?Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger12125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-73888679780626148612007-08-22T03:28:00.000-04:002007-08-22T03:28:00.000-04:00Hi, Sujatha. I read yourthe blog about having baby...Hi, Sujatha. I read yourthe blog about having baby at bangalore.<BR/>Refering this blog, I went to EPMC after getting scared for the prescriptions made by the three gynac I visted one by one.<BR/>EPMC was good. But , again, she prescribed the tablet taht has been banned for pregnant woman. If I ask this to such an expereinced doctor, she would rather get irritated as why did I rechecked the SHINEYhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08920605503952035597noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152641179833610022006-07-11T14:06:00.000-04:002006-07-11T14:06:00.000-04:00Manu, that might work, perhaps. My point was that ...Manu, that might work, perhaps. My point was that ignoring does not work. We humans are just not wired that way.Sujatha Bagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02140274113596874518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152613909799533312006-07-11T06:31:00.000-04:002006-07-11T06:31:00.000-04:00Oso, yup, sounds easy, but easier said than done. ...Oso, yup, sounds easy, but easier said than done. :)<BR/><BR/>Starry nights, thanks and thank you for visiting and commenting.<BR/><BR/>Sourin, better believe it! That's why I hate the carpet thinggies that some people have on the toilet seat covers and at the base of the toilet on the floor. Never know what's on it. <BR/><BR/>And I agree with you about changing other people, but it is another ofSujatha Bagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02140274113596874518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152586440911393872006-07-10T22:54:00.000-04:002006-07-10T22:54:00.000-04:00SujMale species spraying the seat??? C'mon give us...Suj<BR/>Male species spraying the seat??? C'mon give us a lil credit gurl. This one I've never heard, though the more populat toilet seat is the more cliched rote.<BR/><BR/>Why do we even think we can ever change someone else? Just let them be, however they are.<BR/><BR/>SourinSourin Raohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10403501269620049377noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152575664740055842006-07-10T19:54:00.000-04:002006-07-10T19:54:00.000-04:00nice post. true communication and sharing is impor...nice post. true communication and sharing is important, being considerate of your partner is also important, like u said just materialistic rewards wont take u too far.starryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00250437477875291892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152546599843136152006-07-10T11:49:00.000-04:002006-07-10T11:49:00.000-04:00Love advice certainly is everywhere, but it seems ...Love advice certainly is everywhere, but it seems to me that in the end it always comes down to 1.) be patient and tolerant and 2.) be communicative. Sounds easy enough, but I still have never gotten the hang of either.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152537118760773352006-07-10T09:11:00.000-04:002006-07-10T09:11:00.000-04:00hmm, but how about going halfway? like putting the...hmm, but how about going halfway? like putting the toilet seat in the right place or finding the keys and keeping it in front of the person? but not saying anything.. wouldnt that communicate as well as be a prod in the right direction ?manuscryptshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08610761336778547517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152426693389406502006-07-09T02:31:00.000-04:002006-07-09T02:31:00.000-04:00Hi KK, of course no offense taken. :)Hi KK, of course no offense taken. :)Sujatha Bagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02140274113596874518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152409319874409512006-07-08T21:41:00.000-04:002006-07-08T21:41:00.000-04:00Sujatha, I agree. I've always believed marriage is...Sujatha, I agree. I've always believed marriage is a very close form of friendship and if you find you can't talk to your friend then you need to sit down and think about what's going on. It's a naive view, I know, but I prefer it being embittered and cynical about the whole thing. <BR/><BR/>By the way, I didn't mean you personally in my previous post. I apologise if you understood it that way.karrvakarelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564711886357771427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152405928453713492006-07-08T20:45:00.000-04:002006-07-08T20:45:00.000-04:00KK, well put. I indulge in both talking it out, us...KK, well put. I indulge in both talking it out, usually after not saying anything for a long time, but very rarely do I pick up the phone and rant to a friend or relative (unless its a rant fest and both V and I are ranting about the other in jest to a group of friends). I think the last option takes away something from the relationship.<BR/><BR/>Gawker, you know I agree with you about the toiletSujatha Bagalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02140274113596874518noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152401242794220602006-07-08T19:27:00.000-04:002006-07-08T19:27:00.000-04:00hey, before i say anything, why is leaving the toi...hey, before i say anything, why is leaving the toilet seat up considered to be such a major offense among women? I mean, when you enter the toilet you check the toilet seat first before you perch on it, right? Anyways luckily for me my apartment has two toilets and i have we have divided them amongst ourselves so thats not a problem.<BR/><BR/>secondly i agree with you when you say ignoring gawkerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17081710140055676484noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13834351.post-1152400712424000792006-07-08T19:18:00.000-04:002006-07-08T19:18:00.000-04:00It's tricky stuff, knowing when to speak and when ...It's tricky stuff, knowing when to speak and when to hold back. I can't claim to know the magic formoola but I think, over time, after living with a person, and occasionally loving them, you tend to figure out how best to deal with unpleasant differences. Some people (men and women both) talk to each other, others brood and sulk while yet others get on the phone with their best mates and rant. karrvakarelahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11564711886357771427noreply@blogger.com